Body talk and basic lesbian anatomy

What is bodily communication?
When you get cold, your skin may become covered with goose bumps and you can start to shiver. This is your body communicating, “Hey! It’s freezing out here. Either get me a big coat, or let’s go in by the fireplace.” Your body is talking to you constantly, although many of these messages go unnoticed because they are such common occurrences. For most of us, sex does not happen twenty-four hours a day, which means that during arousal, our body’s responses can be easily charted.

So what can a body say?
Pay attention to your own responses when you are beginning to get sexually aroused. What do you feel? Is it a heat wave that starts at your feet and burns through your center? Do you get flushed in the face, or red around your chest and neck? Does your heart start pounding and your respiration increase, or does your clitoris or penis swell up? Do your hands perspire or do chills break out over your back? Is your mind full of wonderfully intense images of what you would like to do with her?

These are just a few of the messages your body might whisper--or flat-out yell--when you are in the mood. The key is to be aware of your own messages, and then open yourself up to seeing your partner’s.

Erogenous zones--places that both give you the chills and make you hot
Many people think that erogenous zones are purely genital, but I’ve found this is far from true. When a woman is in the mood, her entire body can be an erogenous zone, and it’s up to her partner to learn her favorite places. This can be done by paying close attention to what her body is telling you, or by her actually saying what she likes. Both ways are great, and should be used in conjunction with each other...

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