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How
To Be A Happy Lesbian: A Coming Out Guide Chapter 5 Sample Page
Romance
and the art of making lesbian love
The
reason I decided to write this chapter is because Ive had multitudes of
discussions with all kinds of people whose relationships have broken up because
of lack or romance, or because they were dissatisfied with their sex lives. Most
people who are having relationship troubles stemming from sex seem to truly want
to make their partners happy, but are too embarrassed to talk about it to anyone.
Many women complain that their partners just dont know what to do, and some
of these women have very little knowledge of their own bodies and what it takes
to please themselves.
Now, Im not saying that everyone should go off and masturbate for days on
end, but it does help to know yourself. Believe it or not, there are some women
who have never masturbated or had an orgasm! I know this for a fact, because Ive
been with two such women myself.
My first partner had never been with anyone, and she knew nothing about masturbation.
We brought each other out at sixteen. My second partner had been married to a
man for a while, and then was with a woman for seven years. Shed been with
two people for extended periods of time and had no idea about what a clitoris
or a G spot was. Shed never had an orgasm in her entire life! I thought
I could certainly remedy that, but for the longest time she would not allow me
to give her a clitoral orgasm. She just could not handle the intense feelings
of arousal. After a year together, and with her permission, I finally held her
down one night, and, believe me, the house practically rocked when she reached
orgasm. She was amazed and a whole lot happier being totally satisfied inside
and out.
Since this is primarily a coming out book, I thought it would be a good idea to
include a few lessons on how to make love to a woman. If you dont know what
areola, mons pubis, prepuce, or labia majora mean then you may want to go back
and review Chapter 2. I will be using these very important words to explain how
to give your partner an orgasm, and it would be good for you to know what I am
talking about. There are many ways to make love to a woman, but I just list some
basic techniques that I know for sure work. Its up to you to develop your
own style, and this explicit step-by-step chapter will help get you started...HOW
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